Exceptional Friends

I’ve been house sitting for a neighbor friend for the last two weeks, walking and feeding her dog, as well. Last night I decided to come home for a bit, make some phone calls and check on my cats. As I was approaching my house my next door neighbor Sam called me over for a toddy and conversation. He had already had a few drinks it seems and was feeling no pain, although I wouldn’t say he was drunk.

Now, Sam and his wife know my plans to move to Panama and he evidently had been thinking about it and his impending loss of a good neighbor and friend (his words, not mine). He wanted me to know that although he sincerely wished the best for me down there he would sorely miss me. I thanked him for his friendship and concern and tried to assure him that I’d be OK in Panama.

Then he said that just in case it didn’t I’d have a place to stay in his home when I came back. His wife agreed to that right there in front of me. Sam said that this was a life-time offer, too. I was blown away by their generosity and love. Yeah, I did think for a moment that the booze had something to do with this grandiose offer. But then Sam said that although he’d had a few drinks that the offer was genuine. So, I assume it to be the case.

Isn’t that something? How many people would offer such a thing? I am truly blessed to have such friends!

Yes, I am very confident I’ll do well in Panama. In fact, in my timeless way of thinking I already am successful there. I am a student of “The Law of Attraction” and a follower of Dr. Wayne Dyer as well. If you’ve studied either you already know where I’m coming from. Just as the source of everything in our universe does, I am intending my desired reality into my present existence just as I have before.

This is probably the main reason for my success in my internet business, too. I saw it as successful, was thankful for that success and felt the joy that success can bring well before my business actually became successful. It all began as an idea and as the idea took form in practical applications and physical effort I had already arrived in my mind.

So, I hold the animated visions of myself in Panama doing what I enjoy, inhaling the tropical scents of fresh flowers and fruit or the roasting of newly-dried coffee. I see myself typing articles that will be distributed world-wide on the internet or adding to my blog. I smile as I add another short article to my newsletter all the while looking forward to the deposits being made into my PayPal account.

Yes, I am already there, thankful and joyful in what God provides just as He has promised.

AT LEAST SIX PEOPLE WANT YOUR JOB

BASED ON NATIONAL 10.2% UNEMPLOYMENT RATE

Statistically speaking, if the 10.2% national unemployment figures are correct six people would be eager to get your job if it became available. As that percentage of unemployment is probably under the actual number and considering that there are so many areas of the country where unemployment exceeds fifteen percent, for every job available there could certainly be at least ten people wanting them.

Here’s another bit of bad news: Some of those job seekers would be happy to take your position for less money than you earn. The real shocker is that your boss knows it! Many times employees tend to forget that their jobs are strictly at the pleasure of company owners.

If the company you work for is teetering at all it’s a fair bet that every time the boss is signing a payroll check he or she is considering how to bring costs down. No matter how important or vital you think you are to your company, you ultimately are a bottom line expense.

So, am I a fear monger? No! Am I trying to scare you? No, I’m only pointing out the realities of the job market and the fact that nobody is irreplaceable. How you process this information and whether or not you take any action at all is entirely up to you.

I was talking to my neighbor today. Her adult son lives in California (a nearly bankrupt state) and is presently going to insurance school so he can sell insurance. I don’t know about you but I’d think selling something like insurance in a bankrupt state would be a bit chancy if not down right foolish.

As he doesn’t have a family I’d advise him to pull up stakes and move somewhere where his chances of finding gainful employment are better. Now, I realize that I’m falling back on logic here and don’t expect everyone to use it in making their decisions but why in the hell would anyone want to live where they can’t make a living?

I gave my neighbor an example where the job market isn’t all that bad (Texas). She said that his grown children lived in California and that maybe he didn’t want to be far from them. I told her that he would be far more stable in a good job market community and able to help his kids if they needed it. Sorry, more logic!

Something You Need to Know if You're Jobless

OFFER SOMETHING SPECIAL IN LIFE

This will also apply if you ARE employed and you want to KEEP your job.

• Determine what special skill sets you have and capitalize on them.
  
• Learn a skill that will set you apart from others.
• If you have few friends, recognize the fact that you're challenged in that way and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Work on changing your personality. Become a dynamic individual with a positive attitude.
• Challenge yourself and conquer any fears you may have. It can be very rewarding.
• Promote yourself and your abilities. This does not mean you're bragging. It means you know what you can do and you're confident in your abilities.

Become a Leader - A Formula For Success

We've all heard about, met or known people who attract people to them. These people have learned how to love themselves. No, they're not arrogant but they learned that if they don't love themselves, others can't be expected to love them. They're confident about what they know, too. They've become experts in their fields. Also, they're sincere, honest and usually have a certain recognizable dignity. They enjoy helping others, too without expecting anything in return. These are the qualities that attract people and aid in shaping events. If you become a person with these qualities you will succeed in life. SO, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?